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Scenes
from a Marriage (1973) – I. Bergman
In 1973, Ingmar Bergman created a six-part
TV miniseries (close to 5 hours) depicting a marriage that collapses and the
aftermath. Liv Ullmann and Erland
Josephson play the couple and their acting skill is astounding (especially
Ullmann’s, as she has the wider range of emotions to play). Bergman pulls no punches – this is often raw
and intense and vulnerabilities are exposed.
Anyone in a long-term relationship will have a lot to think about. But yet, the view of relationships seems to
be overtly Bergman’s and the autobiographical nature of these “scenes” is
obvious – he is Josephson’s character (Johan) but he has immense sympathy for
Ullman’s character (Marianne) and the film “takes her side”. You could say that this is because of Bergman’s
own guilt over his series of failed marriages and many concurrent affairs
(including with Ullmann). Naturally, the
characters discuss this guilt and where it comes from and whether it is
justified. They discuss a lot of heavy
things (the film is all talk), perhaps more than in the usual marriage (unless
it is self-destructing), and problems with gender roles are explicitly chewed
over. Johan blames the “women’s lib”
movement and Marianne blames the role stresses that she experiences (mother,
wife, lawyer, daughter). Of course,
Johan is a complete cad – he cheats on Marianne – but he is a painfully honest
cad, breaking up their marriage and explaining in terrible detail why he is
doing so, in a way that can’t help but hurt them both. After this moment, we check in with the
relationship at varying intervals in the future (roughly one, five, and ten years
later). Johan and Marianne have taken
different trajectories (his academic career and his newer relationship are struggling
but she is feeling more and more confident and self-aware). Yet – and this may be Bergman’s fantasy –
they are still close, perhaps still in love, still volatile (able to set each
other off), and impossible to extricate from their relationship. Is this optimistic? Maybe. It _is_ evidence of the way that people can
impact each other, for better or for worse. I am not certain that I “believe”
that this is the way most failed marriages play out (but the emotional moments
in the film always seem to ring true). Bergman edited the 5-hour version down
to 2 ½ for a feature film that played in the US in 1974 (both are in the
blu-ray boxset) – it is possible that the short version would be even more
intense without the natural lulls. Although
Ullmann and Josephson are on screen all of the time, we also see another couple
with a distressed marriage (including Bibi Andersson), Johan’s partner in a
workplace affair, and Marianne’s mother. The interactions with these other characters
offer some counterpoints. I could go on –
there is much to digest. If I’ve scared
you (or the content itself does), let me say that despite the topic/events, the
film is never less than absorbing and can be funny, thrilling, challenging, and
yes distressing, but always worth watching.